If you continue to be rude when I'm trying to help you for free this will be our last interaction.
It's clear this extender was not setup properly, or is just not working the way it should for whatever reason. Either way I would assume that the Ethernet would be al little slower coming from the extender.
Who set this up, I forget now? Did you even look at the Manual?
Des_Kahn quote: Your next sentence is incomprehensible: "I think the extender has auto duplicated your wifi ssid's and that is why you are only using the two you keep saying you are turning on and off."
Just because it is incomprehensible to you does not in any way mean it is to anyone else. It means during the setup I was assuming that the Extender Auto duplicated your information in the router so that the extender would broadcast the same SSID's.
The Task Panel, or Task Bar is the bottom of most windows installs, where the start menu and such is. For the third time now, you should be using the Wifi Icon in the Task Bar bottom right. AGAIN, when you want to change connections, you right click "Forget" on the one in use now and move to the other one so we are on the same page.
It's clear then the router was not setup right so follow my directions with the manual to see what all the setting are. Take a pic of the window in question. Make sure MoCA is Enabled in the router and is reflecting the same in the Extender.
Show me the Wifi Window too in both devices!
Please post another speccy now but do File > Save as Text document, or something to that effect and Attach it to your next post.